If my sister had her way, the wedding would’ve looked very different.

Lilian was not one to overdo things, always opting for frugality whenever possible. If it were up to her, she’d have signed the paperwork at City Hall, followed it up with a celebratory dinner at a well-reviewed—but affordable—Chinese restaurant. A simple, satisfying meal in good company would’ve sufficed, and most importantly, sidestepped the costly traditions of an American wedding.

But the decision wasn’t hers alone.

Her other half, Thomas, was the sentimental type. For him, weddings signify a new beginning with your life partner—not going big would undermine the relationship. Coming from a large family, his dream wedding included a lively celebration with all his loved ones.

Inevitably, the two needed to compromise.

As a middle ground, Lilian agreed to a ceremony, but only with a strict budget. No spending on nice-to-haves, no photo booth, no open bar—just the essentials for a minimal—but memorable—event.